Often seen as a sense of self-respect and personal worth, pride can become a double-edged sword. When it crosses over into arrogance, it hinders growth. This inflated sense of self-importance can lead to dismissing others' opinions and feedback, creating relationship barriers. It fosters a mindset resistant to change and new ideas, limiting our development.

The removal of pride was a big deal for me in my early sobriety. Admitting faults and shortcomings was hard, but by working on myself, I created better coping mechanisms based on humility rather than pride.

Humility allows for a more balanced view of oneself—recognizing strengths while being aware of weaknesses. It opens doors to learning, acknowledging that there is always room for improvement. It encourages listening, fosters empathy, and promotes understanding in relationships. Without humility, we can’t make amends and reconcile things in our past. Once pride gets out of the way, the work is easier.

Over time, unchecked pride can lead to significant setbacks, such as isolation. Others may find it difficult to communicate with someone who appears self-absorbed and unwilling to consider other viewpoints. It can also lead to poor decision-making, as prideful individuals might not seek or heed advice, believing they already have the answers.

Show humility by actively seeking and valuing others' input, listening more and speaking less, and being open to feedback. Another way is through self-reflection, recognizing and accepting your limitations and mistakes.

Remember, humility isn't about thinking less of yourself; it's about thinking of yourself less and acknowledging the value and perspectives of others.